Monday, June 30, 2014

Seize the moment and don't let the moment seize you!

Matthew 8:18-21

When Jesus saw the great crowds all gathering about him by the minute, he gave orders to leave for the other side. One of the scribes then came up and said to him, ‘Master, I will follow you wherever you go.’ Jesus replied, ‘Foxes have holes and the birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.’ Another man, one of his disciples, said to him, ‘Sir, let me go and bury my father first.’ But Jesus replied, ‘Follow me, and leave the dead to bury their dead.’

Food for thought

Today's gospel reading reminds us of the importance of the MOMENT. We have heard the expression, Seize the moment! It means that when opportunity comes your way, don't hesitate, grab it. This is what happened in today's gospel reading.

Two men, one was seized by the moment, the other didn't seize the moment. The first man was undoubtedly seized by the moment; the man was impressed by Jesus and decided to follow Jesus whenever Jesus would go. This is not how Jesus recruits his followers.

What does it mean to be seized by the moment?

It means not being able to look beyond, not seeing any further, not seeing the future, not counting the cost. This is what Jesus is telling the first man: "Foxes have holes and the birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head." Jesus is saying to the man: Are you ready to rough it? Are you ready for the challenges ahead? Have you counted the cost? 

Being a prisoner of the present moment means to stagnate with what is happening to you right now. It means not knowing that the present moment is just now, it is not forever. What you're undergoing today, will end, will pass away. Be it good or bad, be it suffering or joy or prosperity, it will come to an end. So, don't get stuck with the present moment; don't be over excited with the NOW that you forget the AFTER NOW; don't be over saddened by your current agony because all problems end. 

The second man was the opposite. He had the rare opportunity of following Jesus, and then he remembered his father. It is most likely that his father was not yet dead, nor that he was near death. The man was saying in other words, I can only follow you after my father's death, after fulfilling my family obligations. Before that, I am not available. The man was saying, in other words, you're important but not that more important than my father. As long as he lives I cannot follow you. Wait until he dies.

In life there're opportunities and things that come once in a lifetime. You seize them or you lose them. That's how Jesus is. Don't let old plans get in the way of new opportunities or luck. Open yourself to chance and don't let the past hold you. Leave the dead die; leave the past pass; embrace the opportunities out there; look for them, and try to take them. 

Once you seize the new opportunities, don't let them seize you. Don't let the opportunities you have seized seize you, and prevent you from further opportunities. Every opportunity should prepare you for new opportunities; don't get stuck with your success.

See what Jesus did in the gospel reading of today. When Jesus saw the great crowds all gathering about him by the minute, he gave orders to leave for the other side. He literally told his disciples to get him out of there to the other side of the lake. At the very moment that everybody was hailing him, at the very moment that he was making gains and success, Jesus left the scene and went across the lake, away from everybody, away from old success and for new opportunities.

The good moment to change course, is when all is good. The good moment to start a new life is not when your life is falling apart; it is when all is going well with you. Thank you Jesus for this lesson!

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